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Projection happens. Sometimes when I feel really uncomfortable feelings, I turn to my partner and ask him .. “Are you okay?” He usually just looks at me with a super calm expression and says, “I’m fine .. are YOU okay?” I‘m usually not okay. . . When I can’t access my own experience, I can unknowingly project my feelings onto him. Having my partner redirect my question back to me (in a non-shaming way) has been beyond helpful. Even though it can feel deeply disorienting at first. Anyone else relate to this!? . . Projections can becomes problematic when we don’t do the internal work of integrating them. They can become problematic when when we don’t “believe” other people’s experiences and when we fight to make things “true” for them that simply aren’t true. They can become problematic when we fail to reflect the projected mirror back to ourselves, to explore and face what’s ours to explore and face. . . Some of us might go far out of our way to help another, when we are actually the one that is needing help. We might suggest that our friend is acting strange and disconnected, when we are the one who feels guilty about being so busy with our new job. We might accuse our partner of wanting to breakup with us .. when we are the one who is having massive doubts. We also might have strong anxious attachment tendencies and are used to focusing (externally) and struggle to connect with our own experience. . . Projection can become a learned defense when don’t particularly feel safe to recognize or contain what’s happening inside of us. It can happen if we were only allowed to have (positive) feelings or if we feel shame for having thoughts that we judge to be (inappropriate). . . Owning our projections takes the pressure off of having to do things perfectly. It can be a non-linear way of getting to know (lost or unseen) parts of ourselves that we may not otherwise have had access to. And being able to recognize when we do project onto others can make it that much easier to simply own it, apologize for it, and move the fuck on with our day. #coachingwithsilvy . . If you feel comfortable sharing, what has your experience with projecting been like?
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