Let’s talk: ABUNDANCE MINDSET 💫
(& comparing yourself to others)
This is a concept that has actually changed the way I view the world & given me so much peace, especially when it comes to comparing myself to others, so I want to share it with you in case you’re not already familiar 🤍
Have you ever caught yourself feeling jealous when someone in your life achieves something that you’d like to achieve? You want to be excited for them, but instead get caught up wishing it was you, mixed with a heavy dose of self doubt.
It could be winning a bodybuilding competition, being promoted at work, , buying a house etc. The next time someone achieves something you dream of, remember this: THERE IS ENOUGH FOR EVERYONE TO GO AROUND. Opportunity is not finite. Success is not limited. Just because one person achieves something, does not mean another person will fail.
❌ INSTEAD OF THINKING: Wow, I can’t believe they managed do achieve that. I could NEVER do something like that / it’s just not going to happen for me.
✔️ THINK: If they can do it, so can I. I have the power to achieve anything I set my mind to!
Making this shift will not only give you peace of mind, but also:
💫 Make you feel more positive. If you see other people’s wins as a sign of possibility for your own goals, you’ll see the world as a much better place. You’ll start to recognise opportunity & come to realise that good things WILL happen for you.
💫 Improve your relationships. With this mindset, there’s even more reason to celebrate someone else’s wins! Cheering on someone we love, & actually meaning it, is extra amazing because it doesn’t just make them feel good, but it improves our own mood, too.
You probably won’t be able to make this change overnight, but you can start to tackle it by really observing yourself when you feel jealous / doubt yourself as a result of someone else’s achievement. When this happens, actively remind yourself: If it’s possible for them, it’s possible for me 🦋🦋🦋
I’d love to know if this resonates with you! 🤍✨
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Read something the other day that said “start before you’re ready”. The moment when we decide we’ll do something later instead of right now is the only barrier we have. Some days I don’t want to go to the gym and some days I contemplate fast food over my meal prep.. sometimes I’ll wake up and I feel like I’m at 50% but I still give every bit of that 50% to whatever my check list is that day. I’ve been working really hard to keep my life in order lately and not procrastinate or push things off to the next day and it’s fucking annoying sometimes (not even gonna lie) but it’s also bleeding into everything in my life and I love what’s coming back around. You deserve to have the spotlight in your own life, stop running around for everyone else just to sell yourself short 🖤🥺 #motivateyourself