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A lack of communication skills remains the largest culprit of conflict in relationships. I want to encourage you this morning to pay attention to the way that you communicate with your loved one. Do you turn towards them or push them away? Are you approaching each other with curiosity or concern? Is there care or consideration towards each other when one of you doesn't seem to be okay? Are we approaching each other with what's wrong with you instead of what happened to you? It's these small nuances in communication that make a huge impact on connection and intimacy in your relationship. When we are not presently engaging with our partners we are mindlessly engaging with the representation of them that we have created in our minds based and our (often negative) judgments, perceptions, and projections. Come to the present moment, turn towards your partner intentionally, and if you read this far comment, I'm learning to turn towards you and not push you away. 🥺❤ ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Announcements: Relationship Diagnostic assessment: If you'd like to know if couple's counseling will help your relationship, contact us today & ask for a Gottman Relationship Tune-up and Assessment! We offer an honest, direct no-nonsense approach to determine if couple's counseling makes sense for your relationship. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Thank you for your continued support & generosity 🙏❤ ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Use the "direct" link in my bio for all inquiries. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Photo creds: @_robertschultz
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1 year ago
yall are so annoying
1 year ago
Hahaha
1 year ago
@ale04o3 bye bye lol
1 year ago