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Enough with the red flags, people! Let's talk about what to look for in a healthy, well-adjusted partner. This list isn't exhaustive, nor does it mean that if your partner/date/lover doesn't show all these signs at all times that you should kick them to the curb. Let's be honest, this list is excellent and all, but at the end of the day, we're all humans trying to do the best we can, and we often fail spectacularly. You can't expect people to be everything on this list all the time. If you do, you run the risk of setting the bar so high that no one will ever be able to meet it. Use this list to evaluate how people show up for you, and more importantly, how you show up for others. You can't reasonably expect others to show you this kind of behavior if you aren't showing others the same. It's a tit for tat world out there, my friend, and there's no such thing as a free lunch. If you want people to treat you this way, you have to be willing and able to treat them the very same way. #itallcounts #neveragain #knowyourworth #feel #lightoutofdarkness #createmeaning #meaning #gratitude #confidence #vulnerability #connection #itstartswithyou #certainty #courage #partnership #ittakestwo #loveisintheair #lovequotesforhim #lovequotesforher #lovequotesforthem #thelovedrive
Grace is a green flag
2 years ago
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
2 years ago
Found this, and now my impulse is to push them away 🥺😔😔
2 years ago
Yeah, my man does all these things, and still hits up every half-naked chick on IG and Snapchat and multiple dating sites.
2 years ago
So good. Green flags. Never even considered that concept before. God knows I’ve seen enough red flags.
2 years ago
❤️❤️❤️ @morningmdm
2 years ago
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2 years ago